What's good with kegels?

When to do them and when to chill.

Let’s start at the beginning, where I draw my line in the sand: I am neither for nor against kegels. I think there’s a time and a place for them, and generally speaking, I think other things are more important.

But! We love a good kegel in the culture. Blame the patriarchy for the problematic glorification of people with vaginas squeezing the hell out o…